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Understanding Spousal Support and Child Support in New York 
Paige Zandri Paige Zandri

Understanding Spousal Support and Child Support in New York 

Learn how spousal support (maintenance) and child support are calculated in New York, including statutory formulas, income caps, and when courts may award support above the cap in high-income divorce cases. Understand who pays, how much, and how long support may last.

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Divorce Readiness? Key Considerations Before Taking the Next Step 
Paige Zandri Paige Zandri

Divorce Readiness? Key Considerations Before Taking the Next Step 

Thinking about divorce? Before you take the next step, make sure you’re truly ready - emotionally, financially, and practically. From custody and child support to budgeting for two households, refinancing your home, and managing post-divorce health insurance, here’s what every New Yorker should consider before moving forward. Clear. Practical. Empowering.

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