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College Costs, Child Support, and the “SUNY Cap”: What Divorced Parents Need to Know
Paige Zandri Paige Zandri

College Costs, Child Support, and the “SUNY Cap”: What Divorced Parents Need to Know

This blog post lays out the nuances of paying for a child’s college education after a divorce. Readers will learn that paying for college is not an obligation for parents in New York, but that many divorce agreements include language around college tuition. This blog also explains the “SUNY Cap,” plus how room and board and existing childcare payments can effect a parent’s financial obligation.

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Understanding Spousal Support and Child Support in New York 
Paige Zandri Paige Zandri

Understanding Spousal Support and Child Support in New York 

Learn how spousal support (maintenance) and child support are calculated in New York, including statutory formulas, income caps, and when courts may award support above the cap in high-income divorce cases. Understand who pays, how much, and how long support may last.

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Dividing Assets in Divorce: Real Property
Paige Zandri Paige Zandri

Dividing Assets in Divorce: Real Property

Navigating the division of real property during a divorce is rarely simple, especially when it involves the primary marital residence, or weekend homes where the family has shared invaluable memories and experiences. Whether your home holds financial or emotional value, understanding your options early can help you make informed decisions that align with your goals.

Generally, there are three potential outcomes when it comes to dividing real property in a divorce.

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